I'm well! I'm not going to try to fill in the gap between now and my previous post, but I'm sure I'll do some FBFs and TBTs, when appropriate.
The biggest change in my life is that I've been moonlighting as a flight attendant, which I absolutely love doing. I'm still doing makeup, still performing, and also volunteering with Shanti Project.
I've been making videos on everything from makeup, traveling, and debt payoff-- which will be my next post!
Sending out love to y'all!
Today I’ve met a personal goal—to be single for at least a year. I'd like to share about this.
(Mind you, for the last 365 days, nobody has been banging down my door to date me—though I did have my “Sorry. I am not available,” speech prepared!)
Since I was 15, I’ve been in one romantic relationship or another, with the longest time between relationships being around 3 months. I’ve been in 2 relationships that were over 5 years long and 5 relationships that were over 2 years long. I've had some really wonderful partners, but it was often the luck of the draw. I was casting a pretty wide net.
A year ago, I had to end a relationship that was not healthy. I was scared of a lot of things, including being alone. I had been finding my value through romantic love, which meant my value always fluctuated. I felt that I needed to change myself to become whatever the other person wanted me to be. I now know that had the relationship not been so extreme, I probably would not have ta…